Signs I Am Healing In My Relationships I am less triggered, and when I am triggered, I work through it I find it easier to put myself in the other person’s shoes and be compassionate without abandoning myself I have clearer, healthier boundaries My self-worth is no longer tied to how much I do for others I know and can communicate my needs gently I don’t hold grudges for as long as I used to I find it easier to validate my partner’s feelings and know I don’t have to agree with them I find it easier to trust and feel safe in relationships My relationships are interdependent, not co-dependent I can self-soothe I find myself playing fewer games in my relationships I know I am loveable even if this is not being shown to me by others I experience more frequent, successful repairs