Hi! I’m Jen. I’m so glad you’re here.
I’m a licensed clinical psychotherapist, couple counsellor and energetic healer who uses an integrated, and personalised process for helping individuals and couples heal from attachment adaptations and childhood trauma to foster more secure attachment internally and with those you love. I’m the author of Heal Your Anxious Attachment and the host of the Psychotherapy Central Podcast, where we explore love, attachment and healing trauma.
When you’re in the middle of change, it can be hard to see how far you’ve come. The shifts might feel small, but over time they add up. Someone who meets you weekly can often see them more clearly than …
This week, I had a few things happen within a 24-hour period that triggered a younger part of me that says, “I’m in trouble.” I haven’t felt this part of me for ages, so it came as a surprise. I …
When a fight starts spiralling, it’s easy to say things you don’t mean or shut down completely. What your nervous system needs in that moment is safety, and the quickest way to get there is to slow down, take a …
If you’re worried someone might be thinking about ending their life, you cannot afford to ignore the signs. Warning signs matter. Knowing what to look for and reaching out when you are concerned can save a life. Many people believe …
This week, I read something that stopped me in my tracks. Twenty-nine people who survived jumping from the Golden Gate Bridge all said the same thing. The moment they jumped, they regretted it. In another study, Dr. Freedenthal found that …
Trigger warning. Over the next few days, I’ll be talking openly about suicide. Looking at the statistics is confronting. If suicide rates are any measure of how we’re doing as a community when it comes to mental health, we have …
Have you ever been in so much pain that you wanted to reach out… but stopped yourself? Because you didn’t want to be “too much,” or felt like a burden to the people you love? This is such a lonely …
Discovering a betrayal can leave you spinning in a storm of uncertainty. One moment you’re furious and ready to leave. The next, you’re longing for the connection you once had. This is infidelity indecision — the painful space where your …
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) is considered the gold standard for healing attachment injuries — the deep breaks in trust and connection that betrayals create. EFT research consistently shows that 70–75% of couples who complete therapy move from distress to secure …
The path to repair is tender and complex — but it is possible with commitment from both partners. The first step is acknowledging the wound. The hurt partner needs their pain to be seen, validated, and cared for. Without this, …